How Connection is Shifting Marketing Strategies
Less Noise. More Connection. Stronger Sales.
Connecting with consumers through all the noise we face today is increasingly shifting distinctly… old school. Not in the retro or nostalgic way. Just human-first (again).
Across industries, platforms, and content formats, research is pointing to a steady shift:
people resisting marketing that feels relentless, generic, or transactional, and gravitating toward work that feels recognizable, relational, and real. This is especially true for small and/or local businesses.
What people are pushing back against
Recent research and platform data are showing a growing clamor against:
- Content for content’s sake
- AI-generated content that feels soulless or interchangeable
- Social platforms dominated by brands instead of people
This isn’t about rejecting specific technology or tools. It’s about rejecting output lacking presence.
Organizations like McKinsey & Company, Harvard Business Review, Nielsen, and tools like Metricool (which analyzes millions of posts monthly) are all pointing to the same underlying pattern:
People are tired of being marketed AT. They want to feel connected WITH.
What are people craving instead?
What we’re hearing (and loving!) is a growing desire for:
- Connections based on common ground
- Shared (and shareable) experiences
- Knowing who you’re really interacting with… and what’s real
For many adults, there’s a quiet longing. as Metricool put it so well, for “a time when being online meant connecting with others, not being sold to constantly.”
That doesn’t mean marketing disappears. But it does mean marketing becomes more
relational. A helpful question to anchor this shift is:
“What’s the simplest way I can show up recognizably?”
(Permission to be spontaneous! Woohoo!)
5 Ways to Respond the the Shift
1.Take it offline: where and how can you interact in the real world? Share
why as well as
what you do through your actions, not just your words. And leverage #2…
2. Connection: Metricool asks “What’s the common ground you have with the people you do (or want to) serve?” e.g., interests, challenges, ideas…
- Show your team and the heart behind your service.
- Help them understand what you do and why.
- Share what grabs your attention.
- Be a little more personal… as if your followers are people turning into your friends. Those bonds are stronger than anything trending.
3. Personality: Bring the vibe that matches the culture they’ll encounter when they work with you. Show who you are (especially if you’re a brand). It’s hard to connect with people (or companies) that have no personality!
4. Be a group of actual people: … and less an “entity.” Skip pushy CTAs, ask like a friend, be conversational.
5. Less is more: A good photo and a caption with personality can be powerful. When everything’s loud in the world, you can stand out by being easy to be around. Spread a little light!
But what about the algorithms?
A fair question. Are algorithms pushing us toward noise, or connection? Well, kind of both.
What algorithms reward:
- Watch time (not volume)
- Saves and shares (signals of relevance, not hype)
- Repeated engagement from the same people
- Content that feels native to the platform
All of which encourages steady pacing, familiar faces and voices, and content that feels worth staying with and maybe even sharing.
What algorithms increasingly downrank:
- Obvious sales language
- Repetitive, generic AI-generated patterns
- Overuse of trending audio without substance
- Content that spikes briefly but doesn’t hold attention
Despite appearances, platforms are not actually rewarding chaos. They’re rewarding stickiness. 
And that's just fine with us. That's how we all want our businesses to be, too.







